This class really focused on the
fundamentals of human interactions and relations. One of the most memorable and
interesting concepts I have learned throughout this course are the different
stages of friendship and romantic relationships. Many times I’ve tried to
create segmented sections of the development of each relationship, however I
could never clearly define in depth as the text did. Being able to recognize and
understand how each relationship develops is a valuable skill in human
interaction. I have been able to label each of my friendships and see where
they fall in the friendship development spectrum.
Additionally, I have learned
valuable tools in increasing my communication between family and friends by
implementing better listening skills. The text explains methods such as being
mindful, physical receiving messages, and selecting and organizing material. I’ve
applied different strategies from the book and have seen significant
improvement in my interactions with others. I’ve also tested different forms of
non-listening and have found those to create negative reactions.
Have you ever tried to experiment
what not to do? I’d like to hear some fun stories with that.
Jossshhuaa
Hi Jossshhuaa,
ReplyDeleteI like your post on what you have learned. I also think that the relationship and friendship sections were very valuable. I look at my family and think about how the book said you can't choose your relatives. Then I think I am very lucky to have the family members I do. They have all been positive factors in my life and they support me in any way possible.
I also learned when it comes to friendships there are different stages and types of friendships. Most of my friendship are in the stabilized friendship phase. However, I do know as I graduate that some of my friendship will hit the waning phase.
Thanks and have a great holiday.
Katrina
Jossshhuaa,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your post and I can agree that what we learned about friendships and romantic relationships is valuable. After reading the text, I am aware of the different stages of friendship and what it takes to be a good friend. Listening is very important in friendship. Also, I found conflict management to be important as it helped me understand how I deal with those situations, and what I can do to improve on when in a disagreement with someone.
Great post. Thanks for sharing.
-rompersb